Big Feelings & Emotional Regulation
The core regulation pathway for anger, tears, shutdown, meltdowns, and emotional overload, built around naming, noticing, resetting, and repairing.
Kind mind tools for ages 10-12
Tap a route, try one small move, and earn badges for having a go. No perfect words needed.
Where do we start?
Tap what feels closest. We will point you towards a free start or the fuller course.
Quest library
2 free starters. 11 complete courses for when you want to go further.
The core regulation pathway for anger, tears, shutdown, meltdowns, and emotional overload, built around naming, noticing, resetting, and repairing.
For fast mood flips, powerful urges, all-or-nothing thinking, rejection alarms, anger or shutdown, and repairing things afterwards. Skills-based and non-diagnostic.
A full anxiety pathway that turns social worry, overthinking, school pressure, panic signals, and burnout into manageable experiments.
A confidence and identity pathway for comparison, people-pleasing, labels, self-criticism, and learning to feel more like yourself.
A practical relationship pathway for friendship pressure, saying no, group dynamics, awkward moments, and staying kind without disappearing.
A gentle pathway for loss, family change, two homes, missing someone, and mixed feelings that do not fit into neat boxes.
A focused digital wellbeing pathway for social media pressure, comparison, group chats, scrolling, online conflict, and after-screen feelings.
A practical psychology course about impulses, 'just this once', rules, friend pressure, honesty, repair and earning more independence.
A calm, non-graphic course about feeds, pornography myths, sexual-image pressure, grooming signals, sextortion and exactly how to get help.
A warm, direct course about crushes, rejection, healthy connection, boundaries, consent, pressure, manipulation and respect.
A factual, shame-free course about puberty, mood changes, curiosity, body diversity, attraction, identity and asking health questions.
A free taster from Big Feelings & Emotional Regulation that helps young people name feelings and try one tiny reset.
A free taster from Anxiety, Overthinking & School Stress for social worry, body alarms, and one manageable brave step.
Your quest map
Every step rewards effort. You do not have to feel calm straight away for the tool to count.
Spot the clue without judging it.
See what your brain and body are doing.
Play one short, practical challenge.
Save what helped. Leave what did not.
Two spaces. One team.
Private learning for the young person. Useful progress and safety support for their linked adult.
No adult access to private journal entries.
Grown-up helper mode
Adults get simple words to use, what to notice, and gentle ways to help after big feelings.


These tools help young people learn about feelings. A parent, carer, teacher, GP, counsellor, or crisis service should step in if things feel unsafe or too big.